I kind of feel a little like a bad mother; a bad party mummy. I have not organised a shin dig for Taj's second birthday. I am not even going to make him a special kiddy cake. It may sound awful, but every year I have made a kid cake. I have thought about a rough theme and rolled with it. This year I thought I would roll with making him what he actually loves. No character cake. Am I failing at the whole kiddy birthday party? Oh how I hope I am not.
Taj really does not have his own friends. He has a girlfriend, Rosie, but beyond that he really just hangs with the little people down the beach. So to me a party would be more an adults party, and it is not about us, it is about him. A nice quiet cake, (awesome Taj cake), and the ones that love him will be enough this year.
I have a day, one day. A day to decide if I am being a party pooper.